What it means to be a nice girl

Basically, putting the needs of others before your own. For instance:

  • Doing the “right thing” even if you don’t want to
  • Letting other people encroach on your personal space and boundaries, and not standing up for yourself and your needs until they’ve egregiously overstepped 
  • Second-guessing yourself and your intuitions while giving others the benefit of the doubt
  • Comforting others (and taking on their emotional/etc. burdens!) even when you’re not in the right/best mental state to do so
  • Doing things that are inconvenient, annoying, or downright bad to you because they make someone else’s life (even slightly) better

 

Fuck being a nice girl.